Why Sharing Chores Might Not Lead to More Sex

“Choreplay” and the myth of housework and desire

Photo by Toa Heftiba on Unsplash

My husband does our family’s laundry. If I believed in “choreplay,” I’d film a Tiktok of him emptying our laundry basket and set it to a song like “One Margarita.” With lyrics like, “I’ma open my legs…/I’ma give you some head/It’s about to get freaky tonight, baby (I’ma put it in my puss),” overlaying his…